Delayed ejaculation: Orgasmic disorder

Delayed ejaculation is associated with the male orgasm dysfunction in which the ejaculatory reflex is inhibited due to physical or psychological problems. Discover what are its causes and how it is.
Delayed ejaculation is due to excessive control over the ejaculatory reflex

Delayed ejaculation

It delayed ejaculation is one of the problems associated with the male orgasm which, contrary to what happens in the ejaculation, the male ejaculatory reflex is inhibited by various problems, which may be physical or psychological.
Called male Orgasmic disorders are characterized by the appearance of certain complications in achieving orgasm, either by delay or lack of the same, although proper erection and arousal levels. In the case of delayed ejaculation, man exerts excessive control over the ejaculatory reflex, involuntarily by inhibiting the release of it and causing that orgasm too late to appear in the context of a normal sexual relationship.
Man in principle presents an adequate sexual response and get an erection, his excitement is high enough, but is contained in some way and find it difficult to let go and reach orgasm, causing long and frustrating intercourse which may eventually decline.
It should be noted the complete inability to climax in any circumstances rarely arises. However, delayed ejaculation is a problem that duty consulted, since what a priori may begin to be a pleasant and exciting encounter can lead to a disappointing and uncomfortable, practice not only for the affected male, but also for your sexual partner, which can see impaired self-esteem the situation.

Types of delayed ejaculation

The incidence of delayed ejaculation can be classified according to the degrees of severity that may present:
· High degree: at this level the only man can climax alone by own pacing.
· Middle grade: in this case the man will achieve achieve orgasm in the presence of your sexual partner, but in circumstances other than intercourse.
· Low grade: in its most subtle form, this dysfunction will only affect occasionally under the influence of certain situations, or will require a period significantly longer of sexual arousal to achieve ejaculation during intercourse.

Causes of delayed ejaculation

When analyzing the etiology or origin of any sexual disorder we should differentiate between the causes of organic nature and causes of psychological nature. The causes of delayed ejaculation are:

Organic causes of delayed ejaculation

Certain diseases, as well as the consumption of different substances, can alter in any way the ejaculatory reflex.
Neurological conditions such as Parkinson's disease, spinal cord lesions such as Syringomyelia, hormonal problems as hyperprolactinemia, some surgeries, diabetes mellitus, or any problem with the seminal tract, can influence so that the man suffers an abnormal delay in ejaculation.
Also the consumption of alcohol or drugs, or follow a treatment with certain medications such as antidepressants, antihypertensive drugs, Neuroleptics or opiates, can affect the male orgasm.

Psychological causes of delayed ejaculation

As in all sexual dysfunction, anxiety is an element to be highlighted. Fear returns to scene and the alarm turns on to negative thoughts like the fact does not live up to or dislike the sexual partner, or even fear of ejaculation or the absence of this, exercising in this case the affected male a hypervigilance over the sensations and perceptions that will make it impossible you to get rid of stress.
In addition to these concerns, relationship issues, significant changes in the relationship, or the fruits of a strict and inflexible education in sexual matters, they can also cause this disorder.

Diagnosis and treatment of delayed ejaculation

The diagnostic criteria that the professional will assess in determining the existence of a male Orgasmic disorder as delayed ejaculation will follow the following pattern:
· First of all, you will find the absence or delay of orgasm evaluating the suitability, the extent and durability of sexual stimulation that the individual receives in accordance to the same age.
· Will also take into account the discomfort that this has been possible to cause in the life of the patient and if it causes him some kind of problem in their social relations, paying special attention to the existence of other sexual disorders, or even the presence of certain relationship issues that could arise as a result of this condition.
· Finally, problems of other clinical disorders and physiological nature different from dysfunction that require a different approach will be discarded.

Treatment of delayed ejaculation

Once diagnosed the disorder of delayed ejaculation, the sexologist will carry out an action plan appropriate that, in addition to correctly explain the normal functioning of sexuality and Remove erroneous ideas in this regard, be able to distract and relax the patient, in such a way that this stop watch your Orgasmic response.
Treatment of delayed ejaculation It is based on two essential basics that will make certain activities to be developed by the patient in the privacy of your home:
· Progressive desensitization: this principle is made up of a series of graded exercises that are personalized according to the reality of each individual, and whose purpose lies in bringing to the patient, in a progressive way, to the goal of ejaculation during intercourse without difficulty. This analyzes to what extent the disorder is located and designed a sequence which gradually provide to affected security you need. An example of this can be begin reaching orgasm alone through masturbation and, once achieved, perform this practice in the presence of the couple. Subsequently, be proven to carry out sex squirting it for masturbation, until reaching climax through the stimulation by your partner, and so on until you reach your goal.
· Stimulation with distraction: this technique consists in the patient receiving genital stimulation by their sexual partner at the same time that dives into his own mind and is carried by the imagination and their erotic fantasies. This will allow you to release tensions and the excessive test that exercises on your own sexual behavior, and will take you to let your pleasure without worries. For this you can also help the use of accessories such as literature or erotic cinema.
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