Excessive confidence and belief in one's ability and attraction, far above other people and thingsPeople tend to have very distinctive and unique personal characteristics that define many times our ways of being and behaviors, define us to others, determine our actions and make us to be recognizable by them. Meanwhile, those personal traits can be positive, good, or on the contrary, negative and bad and then affect us in our social bonding and in our development.
In the case that will occupy us then it is vanity, the connotation and the idea we all have it are negative, while its other side, humility, has a very high consideration and social valuation. I.e., society sees with bad eyes to the vain while he stresses the humble.
He is designated with the term of vanity to excessive confidence and belief in one's ability and attraction is, well above other people and things, is something like pride based on vain things.
Desire to be constantly admired and attributed a high concept to its own meritsMeanwhile, it will be called vain / to the individual submitting this feature as a salient feature of his personality. The vain is arrogant and has the desire to be constantly admired and by all, by the high esteem in which attributed to its own merits, beyond having it or not, if considered that it does and therefore are them should praise and admire.
Vanity generates the person sits in a position superior to the rest of those around him, both in the physical and intellectual level. Then, for the other persons are not it enough beautiful or intelligent like him, and even makes them you know, situation which obviously will cause displeasure in their partners, earning more than one aversion...
There is nothing more than an insecure behind a vainThose who have addressed the issue of vanity in depth argue that there is nothing more than someone unsure of itself behind a vain person and that you need because of this feeling of inferiority that eats it to say to itself and the rest of the world that he is better and above all, although as we have already said that it is not for nothing a reality.
Freud argued that vanity may lead to an extreme personality disorder pathologySome lessons related to religion, is considered vanity as a form of idolatry, in which one rejects God for what he does. The stories of Lucifer and Narcissus, which by the way comes from the concept of narcissism, elucubrado by the medical neurologist Sigmund Freud, are examples of what might be a real vanity. One of the more they studied was the father of psychoanalysis is concerned and the harmful impact it has on the social development of the vain individual. According to Freud, the vanity may lead to an extreme personality disorder pathology. In this type of deviation, the person affected by it, greatly overestimates his abilities and has an excessive need for affirmation and admiration by others.
According to studied by Freud, vanity may compromise the person's ability to live a happy or productive life with their loved ones and their immediate environment, because to manifest the mentioned features of inordinate selfishness and disrespect towards the needs and feelings beyond presenting the kind of vain person, obviously will eventually affect its social side.
The difficult coexistence with a vainActually, things will be to who must live with an vain individual uphill, because such people do not accept that not they adulen them constantly in terms of what they do, what they think and even in what are, besides clear is not to be able to assess and reflect on the reality, because its intelligence is found only in the service and obnubilada by the grandiose vision than have of themselves.
The above shows that no one should be proud of vanity much less and in those cases in which the same is certainly extreme we should consult a specialist in psychology to know how to handle it
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